Where do we even start?

Where do we even start? That is the question that a friend had asked me today. What can we do as white people to end systemic racism. You may be really active in your communities or already be involved, but a lot of folks are in more rural or segregated communities and want to help, but don't know what we can do.

Here are some ideas that might help:

Have weird, awkward conversations. I've had three in the last three days. One where I had to explain ANTIFA (there is a great Vox podcast about who they are), one where I had to tell my husband that the police violence isn't about one or two bad cops but about a system that protects them and they aren't prosecuted, and another to express that of course no one likes looting or destruction of property but we really don't like police killing people more.

Be willing to get it wrong. I am absolutely the wrong person to talk about racism in America. I know very little. I live in a white community, was raised in a white community and have always worked in white work environments. I only know what I know from reading, asking questions and questioning my own beliefs. I'm also willing to get it wrong or be imperfect. White people have to talk to white people about racism. We have to because when we are silent we are part of the problem. We are going to get it wrong, not understand the nuances, not have any idea what it feels like, but we still have to talk to each other because that is how we put it in the light and change our belief structures. If you are interested in having awkward conversations I'm totally into it. Email me and we can set up a time to talk through our own stuff around race.

Give money. We are giving to We Love Lake Street, as a downtown community developer that made the most sense to me, but there are many organizations you can give to. Find something that resonates with you personally and give. As a nonprofit director I can tell you that a smaller monthly donation is more helpful than one off donations - sustainability in an organization is important. Giving $10 a month would make a larger difference than a one time $120.

Read something: Don't just read anti-racism books, read anything written by black authors. Opening up your world to other worlds is often the greatest path towards understanding. I am reading White Fragility with a friend to discuss it when we are done, but read anything that moves you out of your world into another.

Vote. Real change usually happens at the local and state level. Voting in smaller elections is extremely important. Commit to voting in every primary and every election.

Be Well & Do Good Work -
Jackie

Thanks to everyone who entered the give away last week for Arkansas author, Jane Elezy's book. The winner was posted on Instagram.

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